Author's note: This page is designed for parents and "new teens", "mid teens" or young adults to provide sufficient information to make reasonable, high quality life decisions. It is a "choices worksheet" to think through some of the word pictures presented and to apply the information to one's personal life. Also on this page are brief "character pictures on the left" verses (vs) "character pictures on the right". These can be used to discuss whether they are true or false. If someone has already made life style choices that cannot be undone or feel that purity is impossible, one might follow up with the References section below for assurances that you are not doomed and that God strengthens and forever heals. Or search the web for additional information or definitions of the terms or "character pictures" by browser specific searches: - just highlight some topic and click the button. Or to keep it handy just drag your browser specific search script into your Favorites: HISways.NuWin.IE.FAV. , or into your Personal (FF) Toolbar: HISways.GS.NuWin
Pam Stenzel's High Cost of Impure Sex Seminar.(or)
Pam Stenzel's High Cost of Free Love Seminar.
In this video Pam Stenzel covers the physical, financial, mental, emotional and spiritual consequences of promiscuous sex outside of monogamous marriage.
If your public school board approves condom based sex education classes or similar topics in health classes and they lie or mislead you or your child about the true costs of sex outside of monogamous marriage, you might consider talking to a Personal Injury Lawyer; especially, if your minor child contracts a permanent, incurable STD(s) or if they suffer damage to their reproductive system or psyche as a result of a STD(s) or/and promiscuity.
How much money would it take to restore your purity? How much money would it take to restore your health? How much to restore years to your life? Similarly, how much insurance would it take to restore your purity, health or life?
Answer: There is no amount of money, insurance, science or technology that can restore purity, health and life.
| There are
other shorter Stenzel videos, i.e. topical excerpts of her seminars
(10+/- min., free online at PamStenzel's YouTube
they do not make a whole seminar which are 60-80 minutes
For speaking events and DVDs see http://pamstenzel.com/
CONSEQUENCES vs CONSENSUAL
"There are now 30 STD's and 30% are incurable." Pam Stenzel.
|Mountains of rejection or Bridges to
Mutual Consensual Curses Vs Mutual Consensual Blessings?
How do you deal with multiple instances of jealousy and regrets?
Is it better to have discipline or be without discipline?
Which side has the best potential? the worst potential?
What about Innocence? What about natural modesty?
|Do NOT give up your right to purity
or health or family or life.
Is an STD "good understanding"?
Is an STD "beautiful"?
Scars of STD's - heart, soul, mind, body?
Pain of STD's - heart, soul, mind, body?
Rejection - Are you ready for multiple rejections? Broken hearts?
|Ask yourself who is promoting the
idea of promiscuity? Is it someone with a political
or social agenda. They might have good intentions but if they
advocate the character images on the "left" which do not comport
with Pam's video then you should ask yourself whether their
intentions are to make you a victim or a victor.
Do you want to be influenced by a non caring, victimizing political/social agenda or do you want to listen to those who love you, care for you and want to protect you from disease, death and disappointment?
| Who really loves
Do you want to know the truth?
Which authorities are giving you the truth?
Political agenda vs Faithful agenda
Social agenda vs Family agenda
Govt School vs Parent(s)
Generally speaking, are the 2 opposites below on the correct sides?
1. Evolution Religion vs The Word of God
2. Evolution Theory vs Creation Science? < See video seminar.
to Test and Treat.
|Other Related, Long Term Maladies: (Physical, Emotional, Familiar or Mental)||Related Maladies:
to Test and Treat.
Ask permission to publish your completed Choices Worksheet above in the school newspaper or send it to your local newspaper, school board or/and the CDC. Or make 2 Worksheets, one of them showing the information from your "comprehensive sex ed class" and the other one showing the information that was not in the sex ed class.Sources:
|Promiscuity vs Purity, Lust vs
Love, Negligence vs Reason, Stupidity vs Wisdom
Ignorance vs Intelligence, Dangerous vs Safe, Careless vs Reckless, Chaos vs Peace, Sorrow vs Joy,
Hopeless vs Hopeful, Death vs Life, Victim vs Victor, Short Term Gratification Vs Long Term Security, Emotional Promiscuity vs Emotional Purity, Sadness vs Happiness, Plagues vs No Plagues. It is as easy as black vs white! Evil vs Good. 12 Curses vs Blessings.
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Note to Parents: In the light of the The Horrendous Consequences of STD's; and Choices Worksheet above, and if your minor child's school is advocating, teaching, facilitating or promoting any form of sex education other than absolute abstinence or purity, you might talk to your personal injury attorney regarding the liability of the school's "conscious indifference" or "deliberate indifference" toward your child, and the potential of collecting monetary damages in the event they get a STD(s) by following their sex ed. instructions.
These resources are intended to be encouraging and hopeful for guidance, to see where Purity is being honored, how to choose, and how one can make choices that succeed at life. However the character or suitability of some of the links below have not been fully vetted.
Bible Verses - Applicable Honor your father and mother. (Fifth Commandment) and others, voted good by answers.yahoo.com
"Purity Pledge Card" [pdf] .
Pam Stenzel's DVD Curriculum "Love Lessons-Purity is Possible" ,
Focus on The Family
- A Parent's Role in Encouraging Sexual Purity by Joe White (1470 words)
- Book: 'Created for Purity' helps parents teach sexual purity From The Baptist Messenger, May 26, 2005 by Dana Williamson, Associate Editor
- Sexual Purity - Focus on the Family .
A. W. Tozer:
Anyone who wishes to check on his true spiritual condition may do so by noting what his voluntary thoughts have been over the last hours or days. What has he thought about when free to think of what he pleased? When the bird of thought was let go did it fly out like the raven to settle upon floating carcasses or did it fly like the dove circle and return again to the ark of God? Such a test is easy to run, and if we are honest with ourselves we can discover not only what we are but what we are going to become. We'll soon be the sum of our voluntary thoughts.Thoughts become actions and actions become character. If you think respectful thoughts of yourself and others then you will act like you respect yourself and others and then you will be respectful of yourself and others.
The best way to control our thoughts is to offer the mind to God in complete surrender. The Holy Spirit will accept it and take control. It also helps to keep our hearts and minds full of God's Word by daily exposure.
Proverbs 23:7 "For as he thinks in his heart, so is he "
- "Born Again Virgin" This topic is large and complicated. It is listed here in the sense that a Second Chance Is Available.
- How To Start An Abstinence Sex Education Class in Public Schools.
- Sample PURITY PROCLAMATION .
- How Parents can easily influence their "teenagers (to be) twelve-and-a-half times more likely to remain virgins." i.e 12.5 times = 1,250%
- Repent .