Author's note: This page is designed for parents and "new teens", "mid teens" or young adults to provide sufficient information to make reasonable, high quality life decisions. It is a "choices worksheet" to think through some of the word pictures presented and to apply the information to one's personal life. Also on this page are brief "character pictures on the left" verses (vs) "character pictures on the right". These can be used to discuss whether they are true or false. If someone has already made life style choices that cannot be undone or feel that purity is impossible, one might follow up with the References section below for assurances that you are not doomed and that God strengthens and forever heals. Or use thebutton to search the web for additional information or definitions of the terms or "character pictures"
Pam
Stenzel's High Cost of Impure Sex Seminar. (51 minutes) | 2/1/12
This video was unavailable last year (2011) for unknown reasons. It is working today. Click the link to check it.: http://video.google.com/googleplayer.swf?docid=2088786371299544416 |
In this video Pam Stenzel covers the physical, financial, mental, emotional and spiritual consequences of promiscuous sex outside of monogamous marriage. If your public school board approves condom based sex education classes or similar topics in health classes and they lie or mislead you or your child about the true costs of sex outside of monogamous marriage, you might consider talking to a Personal Injury Lawyer; especially, if your minor child contracts a permanent, incurable STD(s) or if they suffer damage to their reproductive system or psyche as a result of a STD(s) or/and promiscuity. Questions: How much money would it take to restore your purity? How much money would it take to restore your health? How much to restore years to your life? Similarly, how much insurance would it take to restore your purity, health or life? Answer: There is no amount of money, insurance, science or technology that can restore purity, health and life. |
There are other shorter Stenzel videos (10
min., free online) but they were not linked here since Pam's seminar consists of about
four 15-20 minute lectures i.e. 60-80 minutes total. For speaking
events and DVDs see http://pamstenzel.com/
CONSEQUENCES vs CONSENSUAL "There are now 30 STD's
and 30%
are incurable." Pam Stenzel. |
| Mountains
of rejection or Bridges to peaceful friendships? Mutual Consensual Curses Vs Mutual Consensual Blessings? How do you deal with multiple instances of jealousy? Is it better to have discipline or be without discipline? Which side has the best potential? the worst potential? What about Innocence? What about natural modesty? |
Do NOT give up
your right to purity or health or family or life. Is an STD "good understanding"? Is an STD "beautiful"? Scars of STD's - heart, soul, mind, body? Pain of STD's - heart, soul, mind, body? Rejection - Are you ready for multiple rejections? Broken hearts? |
| Ask
yourself who is promoting the idea of promiscuity?
Is it someone with a political or social
agenda.
They might have good intentions but if they advocate the
character images on the "left" which do not comport with Pam's
video then you should ask yourself whether their intentions
are to make you a
victim or a victor. Do you want to be influenced by a non caring, victimizing political/social agenda or do you want to listen to those who love you, care for you and want to protect you from disease, death and disappointment? |
Who really
loves you? Do you want to know the truth? Which authorities are giving you the truth? Political agenda vs Faithful agenda Social agenda vs Family agenda Govt School vs Parent(s) Generally speaking, are the 2 opposites below on the correct sides? 1. Evolution Religion vs The Word of God 2. Evolution Theory vs Creation Science? < See video seminar. |
| STD |
Type: (Viral, Bacterial) |
Best Way to Prevent. |
Method
of Transmission. |
Symptoms of Disease. |
Potential
Costs to Test and Treat. |
Other Related, Long Term Maladies: (Physical, Emotional, Familiar or Mental) |
Related Maladies: Costs to Test and Treat. |
| #1. |
Ask permission to publish a completed Choices Worksheet above in the school newspaper or send it to your local newspaper, school board or/and the CDC. Or make 2 Worksheets, one of them showing the information from the 'comprehensive' sex ed class that you took and the other one showing the information that was not in the sex ed class.Sources:
Note to Parents: In the light of the The Horrendous Consequences of STD's; and Choices Worksheet above, and if your minor child's school is advocating, teaching, facilitating or promoting any form of sex education other than absolute abstinence or purity, you might talk to your personal injury attorney regarding the liability of the school's "conscious indifference" or "deliberate indifference" toward your child, and the potential of collecting monetary damages.
These resources are intended to be encouraging and hopeful for guidance, to see where it is being done, how to choose, and how one can make choices that succeed at life. However the character or suitability of some of the links below have not been fully vetted.
Bible Verses - Applicable Honor your father and mother. (Fifth Commandment) and others, voted good by answers.yahoo.com
Accidental Abstinence vs. Premeditated Purity .
"Purity Pledge Card" [pdf] .
Pam Stenzel's DVD Curriculum "Love Lessons-Purity is Possible" ,
Focus on The Family
- A Parent's Role in Encouraging Sexual Purity by Joe White (1470 words)
- Book: 'Created for Purity' helps parents teach sexual purity From The Baptist Messenger, May 26, 2005 by Dana Williamson, Associate Editor
- Sexual Purity - Focus on the Family .
A. W. Tozer:
Anyone who wishes to check on his true spiritual condition may do so by noting what his voluntary thoughts have been over the last hours or days. What has he thought about when free to think of what he pleased? When the bird of thought was let go did it fly out like the raven to settle upon floating carcasses or did it fly like the dove circle and return again to the ark of God? Such a test is easy to run, and if we are honest with ourselves we can discover not only what we are but what we are going to become. We'll soon be the sum of our voluntary thoughts.Thoughts become actions and actions become character. If you think respectful thoughts of yourself and others then you will act like you respect yourself and others and then you will be respectful of yourself and others.
The best way to control our thoughts is to offer the mind to God in complete surrender. The Holy Spirit will accept it and take control. It also helps to keep our hearts and minds full of God's Word by daily exposure.
Proverbs 23:7 "For as he thinks in his heart, so is he "
- "Born Again Virgin" This topic is large and complicated. It is listed here in the sense that a Second Chance Is Available.
- How To Start An Abstinence Sex Education Class in Public Schools.
- Sample PURITY PROCLAMATION .
- How Parents can easily influence their "teenagers (to be) twelve-and-a-half times more likely to remain virgins." i.e 12.5 times = 1,250%
- Repent .
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