Promiscuity vs Purity,  The Parents' Purity Page and Attitudes Shaper.  

Drawing Mental Pictures Of Character - What Does Character Look Like?
The Horrendous Consequences of STD's and The Choices Worksheet.
Author's note:  This page is designed for parents and  "new teens", "mid teens" or young adults to provide sufficient information to make reasonable, high quality life decisions.  It is a "choices worksheet" to think through some of the word pictures presented and to apply the information to one's personal life.   Also on this page are brief "character pictures  on the left" verses (vs) "character pictures on the right".  These can be used to discuss whether they are true or false.  If someone has already made life style choices that cannot be undone or feel that purity is impossible, one might follow up with the References section below for assurances that you are not doomed and that God strengthens and forever heals.   Or search the web for additional information or definitions of the terms or "character pictures"  by browser specific searches: (FF) Highlight some text and click to open the search results in a new browser window. (micro fund raiser) - (IE) Highlight some text and click to open the search results in a new browser window. (micro fund raiser)  just highlight some topic and click the button.  Or to keep it handy just drag your browser specific search script into your Favorites: HISways.NuWin.IE.FAV.  , or into your Personal (FF) Toolbar:  HISways.GS.NuWin

Pam Stenzel's High Cost of Impure Sex Seminar.


Pam Stenzel's High Cost of Free Love Seminar.

In this video Pam Stenzel covers the physical, financial, mental, emotional and spiritual consequences of promiscuous sex outside of monogamous marriage.  

If your public school board approves condom based sex education classes or similar topics in health classes and they lie or mislead you or your child about the true costs of sex outside of monogamous marriage, you might consider talking to a Personal Injury Lawyer; especially, if your minor child contracts a permanent, incurable STD(s) or if they suffer damage to their reproductive system or psyche as a result of a STD(s) or/and promiscuity.
How much money would it take to restore your purity? How much money would it take to restore your health?  How much to restore years to your life?  Similarly, how much insurance would it take to restore your purity, health or life?
  Answer:  There is no amount of money, insurance, science or technology that can restore purity, health and life.

     There are other shorter Stenzel videos, i.e. topical excerpts of her seminars (10+/- min., free online at PamStenzel's YouTube Channel); but, they do not make a whole seminar which are 60-80 minutes total.

For speaking events and DVDs see 

"There are now 30 STD's and 30% are incurable." Pam Stenzel.

PamStenzel's Seminar - YouTube Search

Mountains of rejection or Bridges to peaceful friendships?
Mutual Consensual Curses Vs Mutual Consensual Blessings?
How do you deal with multiple instances of jealousy and regrets?
Is it better to have discipline or be without discipline?
Which side has the best potential? the worst potential?
What about Innocence?  What about natural modesty?

Do NOT give up your right to purity or health or family or life.
Is an STD "good understanding"?
Is an STD "beautiful"?
Scars of STD's - heart, soul, mind, body?  
Pain of STD's - heart, soul, mind, body?
Rejection - Are you ready for multiple rejections?  Broken hearts?

What are the attitudes & motives of the promoters of Promiscuity?
Ask yourself who is promoting the idea of promiscuity?  Is it someone with a political or social agenda.  They might have good intentions but if they advocate the character images on the "left" which do not comport with Pam's video then you should ask yourself whether their intentions are to make you a victim or a victor.

Do you want to be influenced by a non caring, victimizing political/social agenda or do you want to listen to those who love you, care for you and want to protect you from disease, death and disappointment?

 Who really loves you?
 Do you want to know the truth?
 Which authorities are giving you the truth?
Political agenda vs Faithful agenda
Social agenda vs Family agenda
Govt School vs Parent(s)

  Generally speaking, are the 2 opposites below on the correct sides?
1. Evolution Religion vs The Word of God
2. Evolution Theory vs Creation Science? < See video seminar.

And he (Jesus) answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbor as thyself.  Luke 10:27

Choices Worksheet:
Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs)(  An idea for discussion.  
     Although the CDC has gathered decades of high brow information they lack the desire or the ability to display the data in simple and comprehensive truths.  Their covert, inculpatory rhetoric that obscures the horrendous consequences of the STD data is negligent.  Can you imagine a CDC parent telling their teenager to get STD info by reading their web site?  No, those parents have a comprehensive table like the one below already filled out and ready for discussion and display.
     If you have a child or are a child in a health/sex ed. class see if you can get extra credit or do a term paper by filling out this form with the correct data for all 30 STDs, or The Most Deadly
STDs, or The Top 10 Most PopularSTDs, or The 5 Male vs 25 Female STDs, etc.. (Hints:  Download, edit, print and complete. Or cut & paste the table in an email - edit in HTML and print from your email template.  
This table is also available as ChoicesWorksheet.doc in MS Word 97/2000/XP document format and ChoicesWorksheetWord6.0.doc and OpenDocument Text ChoicesWorksheet.odt)

The Horrendous Consequences of STD's; and Choices Worksheet.
Best Way
to Prevent.
Method of
of Disease.
Potential Costs
to Test and Treat.
Other Related, Long Term Maladies: (Physical, Emotional, Familiar or Mental) Related Maladies: Costs
to Test and Treat.
Ask permission to publish your completed Choices Worksheet above in the school newspaper or send it to your local newspaper, school board or/and the CDC.  Or make 2 Worksheets, one of them showing the information from your "comprehensive sex ed class" and the other one showing the information that was not in the sex ed class.  

"A strange game. The only winning move is not to play."  from the movie 'War Games - The Dead Code'
© 2007 MGM Global Holdings.

Promiscuity vs Purity,  Lust vs Love,  Negligence vs Reason,  Stupidity vs Wisdom
Ignorance vs Intelligence, Dangerous vs Safe,  Careless vs Reckless, Chaos vs Peace, Sorrow vs Joy,  
Hopeless vs Hopeful,  Death vs Life,  Victim vs Victor,  Short Term Gratification Vs Long Term Security,  Emotional Promiscuity vs Emotional Purity,  Sadness vs Happiness,  Plagues vs No Plagues.  
It is as easy as black vs white!  Evil vs Good.  12 Curses vs Blessings.
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BE GOOD TO YOURSELF - ADOPT YOUR OWN WISDOM RULES.  Seek "blessed advice".  Purity is beautiful.

Quotation by a Purity Pledge signer:
"My parents tell me it's an honor that I'm leading the family, that I'm being an example for the..." other kids.


Note to Parents:  In the light of the The Horrendous Consequences of STD's; and Choices Worksheet above, and if your minor child's school is advocating, teaching, facilitating or promoting any form of sex education other than absolute abstinence or purity, you might talk to your personal injury attorney regarding the liability of the school's "conscious indifference" or "deliberate indifference" toward your child, and the potential of collecting monetary damages in the event they get a STD(s) by following their sex ed. instructions.  

These resources are intended to be encouraging and hopeful for guidance, to see where Purity is being honored, how to choose, and how one can make choices that succeed at life.  However the character or suitability of some of the links below have not been fully vetted.

Bible Verses - Applicable Honor your father and mother. (Fifth Commandment) and others, voted good by
"Purity Pledge Card" [pdf] .
Pam Stenzel's DVD Curriculum "Love Lessons-Purity is Possible"   ,

Focus on The Family
A. W. Tozer:

Anyone who wishes to check on his true spiritual condition may do so by noting what his voluntary thoughts have been over the last hours or days.  What has he thought about when free to think of what he pleased?  When the bird of thought was let go did it fly out like the raven to settle upon floating carcasses or did it fly like the dove circle and return again to the ark of God?  Such a test is easy to run, and if we are honest with ourselves we can discover not only what we are but what we are going to become.  We'll soon be the sum of our voluntary thoughts.
The best way to control our thoughts is to offer the mind to God in complete surrender.  The Holy Spirit will accept it and take control.  It also helps to keep our hearts and minds full of God's Word by daily exposure.
Proverbs 23:7  "For as he thinks in his heart, so is he "  
Thoughts become actions and actions become character.  If you think respectful thoughts of yourself and others then you will act like you respect yourself and others and then you will be respectful of yourself and others.
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 - Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so  .  .  . 'Love the people who treat you right. Forgive and pray for those who don't.' ... from email

- "It is better to be hated for telling the truth than to be loved for telling a lie."  Dr. Adrain Rogers

- "A lying tongue hates those it hurts," Proverbs 26:28a (NIV).  And the Truth blesses those who receive it..- rek 4/2/09

- Lying lips [are] abomination to the LORD: but they that deal truly [are] his delight. (Proverbs 12:22)

 - ".. wisdom is a defense, and money is a defense: but the excellency of knowledge is, that wisdom giveth life to them that have it."   (Solomon, Eccl 7:12 , KJV)

-   There is no amount of money, insurance, science or technology that can restore purity, health and life.

 - And  "Wisdom strengtheneth the wise more than ten mighty men which are in the city."     ( Solomon, Eccl 7:19 , KJV)

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